all about hayy..


entry kali ni is all about my baby hayy..
alah..not so baby anymorelah..dah bau tengik pon..bucukk..masham sangat!

the most nakal, cheekiest, nottiest amongst all..
dapat kaki pun cepat..9 month dah start jalan, mana la tak tekejar i dengan dia ni..by 11 month dah lari2 you!
tak tercakap lagi dah. Umur baru setahun sebulan..tapi since dia banyak belajar ilmu dunia from 3 sifu- sifu alam, sifu langit dan sifu cakerawala..
so power dia berganda lagi dari abang abang dia yang lain.

yes..pasti tertanya tanya how do i manage to handle 4 boys (minus kakak la..dia girl, so nakal dia ke arah menjahanamkan make up mummy dia).Answer dia..you don't jaga them, you just play along with them..bukanlah i ikut sekali panjat panjat and melompat main tembak tembak gitu ke apa..
i just monitor them as long as they know whats right and whats not..jatuh ke, sakit ke is part of the growing process..
(contoh nursery kat sini, 3-4 yrs old dah kena expose how to handle things in the kitchen, siap ada kelas masak.. to hold knife, scissors, stapler,..computer class, how to search websites,print pictures etc..yang best tu how to DIY..dekat outdoor play area ada real tukul, real saw, real PAKU!..dan real segalanya..but all dibuat dalam bentuk ketot so budak2 ni easy to handle)

Never say 'no' when they are doing something..itu learning process namanya, macam kita takutkan anak terluka ke apa ke..sikit2 risau..but here..if terpotong ke apa..teacher will report the incident to you and suruh kita sign in the report book.And of course they will treat the luka lah.

So, i pun praktikkan the knowledge i dapat from the nursery to my everyday life..
its not easy to monitor 4 little boys you know..
and alhamdulillah, they are now easier to handle..despite being boys la kan..masih notty notty, tapi dalam keadaan terkawal dan berhemat..hehe..
my 2 yrs old zach even know how to handle with scissor all by himself..

ya itu dia...my way..lepas nakal2 kecahkan bilik teruk teruk kenalah u all mengemas..'tidy up time' namanya, kalau 20 kali main, 20 kali sepah, 20 kali mamanya mengemas, mati la mamanya.belum masuk housework mama lain2 lagi! and sape rajin can get treat from mama-stickers, sweets, keropok lekor..wtf??

STUDY and BASIC KNOWLEDGE- very important for them before nursery year starts and after
  • sing songs to them, nursery songs la..bukan kerispatih. ungu..sebagainya..(songs stimulate minds, especially otak budak yang menyerap segalanya umpama sponge)
  • read to them, best time is night time..before tido.
  • introduce them to IT, sangat penting..jangan marah and risaukan komputer/laptop/netbook rosak!.If marah2 will put them off, rasa tak safe nak pakai (takut mama marah nanti) komputer beribu ringgit rosak. if you notice, mula2 baby you pegang mouse, pastu try to tekan2 keyboard..click the mouse, on the cpu and monitor..if u let them to continue..lama2 anak you akan terrer dengan sendirinya.introduce them to internet not games ya-coz games buatkan budak leka and malas belajar! ( banyak interesting sites for children nowadays etc cbbc.co.uk ) this sites will teach children how to learn through play..
  • lastly, jaga hati and perasaan anak, a healthy heart will stimulate body and soul..mcm nilah..bagila anak sebanyak kebahagiaan yang boleh. Jangan gaduh laki bini,masam2 muka depan anak..nak marah2 pegilah lepas kat kucing ke, jiran sebelah rumah atau pasaraya berdekatan anda. Give reward for your childs effort, bukanlah nak kena bagi hadiah selalu..kopak babe, means..give them big hugs, kisses and praise them.
-Hoh!!-! tu dia!..entry dah lari topik sebenarnya..its not all about hayy after all! hehe..

This is just a teeny weeny part of it..banyak lagi as it goes along the way..yang akan cik kiah kongsikan bersama pada lain hari :)
As for Hayy? tengoklah dia buat apa..mmm..

when mama sebut2 hayy, dia datang mcm kucing 'meow-meoww'

mari kita tanam tok guru dengan bantal bantal ni...

mari kita turun pula..


dan jatuhkan beg mama..yeahaaa..!
(mama: arghhhh!!!..my bradley bag..!!)
ok..enuff. Mama dah menyinga, bulu dah panjang.. taring dah keluar..
mari kita kembangkan hidung dan berkepak ke arah mama..
gimik i jadi kan ma..actually i nak sepahkan toys pulak..nyet! nyet!

Nite nite everyone, hope you enjoy watching me! :)

7 comments:

MRSHUSiN said...

great tips dbab!
nanti kalau i dah ada anak, i will praktikkan your tips tu...
proud of u lah! =)
cepat betul hayy u membesar babes, rasa mcm just yesterday u were in labor!

btw, hope u will be back in KL before the 18th july. cos hanie nak organise a small reunion do for class of '96, and kalau u ada, dtglah! i think dia ada hantar invite via FB.
hope u can make it! =)

Delia said...

Hayy sungguh comey!!!! he looks just like his siblings! =)

dbab said...

d:comey?alhamdulillah,,,tapi tak tahan part notty dia..sampai bleh keluarkan laci nak panjat jadi tangga pun ada!hishhhhh..
nanz..i balik bersama cath k u and ck lain lagi as a small token frm me!! hehe..cemana nak jumpa nanti kita kal2 lah.

izan:18th?aiyak..babe, i arrive ptg daa..5.55pm! talak sempat la..hehe nemind..kita buat get together bila i dah settle down nanti k!
teruja sungguh nak balik ni..

D&I(nasib tak D&G): babes, visa i tak sampai lagi..risau lah!!

roxychick said...

part tanam tok guru dgn bantal tu yg tak tahannnn..

kids nowadays..

MRSHUSiN said...

hahaha...
nasibbbb x D&G!

oh no... hopefully visa u siap dlm masa terdekat ni...
inshaAllah ok babes?

sayangnya u balik ptg tu! :(
takpe, apa2 nanti nak minum kopi ke, teh tarik ke, lepak2 catch up ke...
jgn lupa habaq nooooo....
lama x jumpa u! :)

Delia said...

yes! yes! must meet up! masa kat London tak sempat! bad timing la i datang masa winter!!!!

dbab said...

omg del's..
kalau i tak jadi balik memanglah frust menonggeng.
barang dah pack..beserta your bag..
geram with home Office..lembab'ss